"I looked like the worst mom today": Mom stops including fruit in 7-year-old daughter's school lunches because they just end up in the trash, teacher berates her for packing only processed food

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    My daughter's unhealthy packed lunch?

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    Went to my 7 year old daughter's school interview and got judged for her lunch, I always pack a yogurt, sandwich, a packet of chips, a cheese stick and some fruit.Sometimes she will take a cookie/brownie
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    or chocolate. She's always been a picky eater and has had stomach problems since she was a baby so getting her to eat anything is a win, most of the time half the stuff is still in her lunch box. Nearly
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    everytime I pack fruit it comes home soggy and yuck and I feel like I'm just wasting money. So the last couple of times I haven't worried about the fruit. Well the teacher decides to tell me today that her
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    stomach problems would get better if she wasn't eating so much processed foods and that I give her to much money for canteen and I need to start packing more fruit even though she doesn't eat it.
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    She even told her teacher she eats lettuce when I barely can even get her to eat a strand of it on a taco. I feel like I looked like the worst mum today. Then she proceeded to tell my daughter that she better see fruit in her lunch tomorrow and not so
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    much packaged foods??? I feel like it's abit of a attack, some mornings I take her to the corner store to buy a little lollie because it's something special we do after I drop my youngest two off, I even got told of for that!!!! Am I the a h le?
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    EDIT: my daughter suffered bowel issues before she could even eat food, towards the end her pain was so bad the dry chips was the only thing her stomach
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    could handle without vomiting. So before all the haters come for the chips maybe try and think about when she was 6 months old screaming because her bowel hurt and she hadn't even ate a thing yet.
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    Heylts-Amanda My kids usually eat school lunches, and the school forces them to take a fruit option when collecting their food. Its a requirement that the school sees the child with fruit on their plate. The amount of fruit being thrown away because the kids won't eat it is devastating.
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    RaceSea8191 My school started slicing the apples for the kids with apple slicers when they sit down and suddenly everyone eats their apples! They just don't want to bite into the whole thing.
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    DucklnAFountain I used to walk my kids in to their classroom when they were pre-K, and we would pass a table where half the kids dropped their fruit cup off after receiving their breakfast. It was always full. They would also put boxes of fruit out at the end of the day and tell you to take some home.
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    mangoawaynow NTA - honestly teachers should be more concerned about the fact that kids get like 5 minutes to eat
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    Cudi_buddy Kids need more recess/lunch, especially young kids. Why we try and make them college students at 7 years old is so stupid.
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    Strange_Depth_5732 My kids school did lunch as play for 30 minutes and then come in and eat while the teacher read to them for 30 minutes. It was so much better. Lunches get eaten.
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    SquirrelsNRaccoons This isn't a personal attack on you, it's a teacher caring about the junk one of her students eats. She is trying to influence your daughter to eat healthier. You should be happy about this, instead of taking it as a personal slight.
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    NTA Kooky-Situation3059 Teacher stepped way over the line
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    enonymous Canadian Yeah, I'd be writing a note to the Principal about that and attaching a note from the doctor about the history of stomach problems. This woman just stigmatized eating when the kid has trouble
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    eating. I don't go to the Principal but sometimes people need a strong reminder to stay in their own lane. She needs to concern herself with education not nutrition- it's what the kid eats over the whole week that matters.
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    Grassistrsh Teacher is not a nutritionist. Maybe needs reminding this subject is out of her scope and she is not licensed to give medical advice.
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    sat474 NTA. The teacher's trying to turn you into a lunchbox police when all you're doing is surviving picky-eater life. You know what's important? Your daughter eats something, not what some diet guru thinks she should have.
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    Grand_Measurement_91 I once got a snotty note from a teacher to stop putting cucumber in my daughters sandwiches as it made them soggy. My daughter requested the cucumber!
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    Still Missing Merle Get the fruit cups that you can just resend endlessly to shut her up.
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    emjdownbad Tell her if she wants to pay for the uneaten fruit in every sack lunch, she is more than welcome to. If not, she can mind her own business when it comes to what your child eats & stick to the teaching.
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    rmas1974 The food you are providing is high in carbohydrates, fat and sugar. It is also low in nutrients. The teacher is correct about the lunches being unhealthy but whether it is appropriate for the teacher to raise this with you wherever you are is another matter.
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    DrKoz Everyone saying NTA and blaming the teacher for pointing out what is in fact a very unhealthy meal for a 7 year old, is why there is a childhood obesity epidemic in the US.

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